After a break up, I'm sure you know painful it is to stare at your phone all day, hoping to see your ex's name flashing on the screen. You may have also been fiddling around with the numbers but just never got around to calling your ex to tell him or her how sorry you are. You find yourself needing to talk to your ex because you have so many questions that only he or she can answer. You may be wondering if your ex still has feelings for you... Or you realize that in order to rebuild the love and trust in the relationship, it's important that the both of you have a talk.
Whatever it is, the problem only gets worse when you finally decide on calling. This is because you only have about three seconds to make an impression before your ex hangs up on you. So what can you say? Are there any 'magic' words that you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? It may sound unbelievable but not only are there 'magic' words that work, there are also many ways to make that possible.
Now on to that tip...
People who are trying to put their relationships back together always ask me this: "How do I get my ex to return my phone calls or text messages?"
My answer is always simple -- I tell them what not to say. It's important to know what you should never say because saying all the wrong words will only put you in an unfair psychological position.
The wrong words usually fall into two categories:
#1 The Plead -- For example: "John, please call me back. This is the fifth time I have called. I really have to talk to you!"
#2 The supposed "emergency" which goes something like this: "Mandy, this is an emergency. Please call me back as soon as you hear this."
Do you know what is wrong with those approaches? It shows how desperate you are. Your ex most certainly won't return such calls.
That's why you have to use "curiosity" and "self-interest" instead. If you learn how to use those to your advantage, you will have a recipe that works like a spell to bring someone back into your life.
